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Now days children are having sex and loosing virginity in teen years, and its considered cool. I often find myself wondering when my time will be and who and all these different things. A lot of my friend aren’t virgins and no matter what people say I really want to loose my virginity. I have a lot of people say i’m cute and i’m just wondering what is the Right age to loose your virginity?
The truth teens having sex. Regardless of the age. The real question is "Are you ready for the consequences if anything goes all and all the emotions that go with it?" By this I mean you ready if the condoms breaks and you come pregnant or get someone pregnant? Or finding out if the person you "thought" loved you only wanted to use you for sex? What if this person had sex with multiple people and you get something from it. Are you ready to deal with the medical bills and disease? Those the person whom you are going to have sex with can be trusted? Those are just some of the negative things that can truthful hurt you, but if you're truly ready and you can trust this person to be there if anything does go wrong then give your heart. That's what you're doing. You're not just giving up your virginity. You are giving this person a part of your heart, your life, and trust. You're telling this person they have everything that creates who you are. And only you know the answer to all these questions. As long as you can answer yourself truthfully then the right moment will come. Every experience is different. The level of readiness is up to both people. But you know when you are in the moment. As to the right age, this is only my opinion, is 17 and older. But even then that's too young. But it's all about the level of trust. If there's trust and you know 200% with your heart that this person cares about you and you care about then it's alright. Just be smart and wise about it.
There's not a right age for that, everyone have different experiences and not everyone is ready at the same time. If you want to lose it just because it's what's 'normal', i wouldn't do it, because it's something really special and it shouldn't be done with someone who doesn't love you. But then in my PERSONAL OPINION, no one younger than 15 can be ready to do something like that, and even 15 is a too you age. For me 13 year old kids who fuck now a days are crazy and it's ridiculous.
-P.S- This Reply is being sent through this account, the actual Owner of the account is not asking this.I agree, but lately all my friends are talking about how they fucked this chick and stuff like that and I feel like a massive loner. Because I have never even dated a girl and I feel like i'm gonna die alone if I don't get active now.
You're not a loner, and i wouldn't care if i was you, there are a lot of people who don't date until they are in their 20s and more and it's completely fine. Just don't do it to impress your friends, that's the worst.
There is no exact "right" age. The "right" time is whenever a person feels ready, fully understand what sex is, fully understands what sex is for, and fully understands the possible consequences of sex. I would say that it also shouldn't be done until you are ready to raise a baby that could be conceived even with protection, but some people never want kids, so I think that is pushing it a bit.
Anyway, some people are ready at 13, while others may be 40 and still not ready. It all depends on the person.
I am 18, and I think some of my classmates started having sex around age 12, though I doubt they were really ready for it, but I am still a virgin. I have had no reason to lose my virginity as of yet, and I have had no special person to give it to.
There is no right age. Most of your friends may not have even had sex with those girls, but rather, say they have as a way to demonstrate their masculinity.Have sex when you are ready, and be safe (i.e. use protection for both yourself and your partner). Make sure that it is 100% consensual and not something you expect from a girl. Your friends going around talking about girls that they had sex with willy-nilly? They are just treating women like objects with no respect. Don't worry about when you should be having sex. Instead, worry about the type of friends you have that are going around talking about women in a derogatory fashion.
There's no real 'right age'. The 'right time' to start having sex is when you are educated and aware of how to keep yourself safe and healthy while being sexually active, when you have a partner you completely trust who understands consent and will be gentle with you, and when you feel you are comfortable taking that step for yourself. Don't feel pressured to have sex just because its 'cool' or 'trendy', but if you are at a point in your life where you understand the responsibilities and risks that come with being sexually active and you have a partner you trust and are comfortable with then regardless of your age, sex is not a bad thing. The only thing that you really must be aware of is the age of consent in your area - societal okays and legal okays are sort of different and the last thing anyone needs is to get into trouble for statutory rape. Different places have different ages where the law recognizes an individual's ability to give valid consent. You'd have to look it up for wherever you live.
Human beings are not uniform creatures. There is no self "right age" for sex. It is when that individual feels ready, once they come to determine if they are even a sexual person at all; however long that takes.
The "Right age" for sex is when you're married. That's reserved for people who are truly in love with each other and are willing to start a family together. Of course, you can alternatively throw your life away by not saving yourself for the right person.