I’ve been really good friends with a girl for about two months now. We’ve hugged and kissed some, but neither of us have mentioned anything about a relationship. I’m in love with her and definitely ready. What’s the best way to tell her?
I would say tell her with honesty :) and tell her face to face. She might be nervous about you telling her at first, just as nervous as you might be but it means MORE.
In my opinion before telling her you love her, id first see how she feels about you so you dont get hurt or anything. remember your first love is the hardest love.. I would tell her how you feel if your intuition says its the right thing to do, but you dont want to overwhelm her and make her confused about her own feelings, which is why maybe ask her first. i know that me personally one of my pet peeves is someone saying they love you when you havent even been together long.
I'll be honest with you, I wouldn't tell her that you love her just yet. If I were you I would just simply state that I had feelings for her. Say she has feelings for you and isn't really in love just yet, telling her you love her might overwhelm her. Keep it simple and sweet, ask her out and then wait some time to drop the big L word. Play it safe, protect your heart.
Whoa whoa whoa... how have you kissed and not thought about a relationship? I would definitely start off by telling her how you feel, but don't necessarily use the word 'love' just yet. If her feelings seem mutual, I would then suggest discussing a relationship. I wouldn't rush into right now, because as the other responses have said, you don't want her to freak out and get scared. I don't know if this is exactly what you wanted to hear, but I hope this helps a little.
I would tell her that you have feelings for her and maybe explain to her a little bit why. Tell her the things you like about her. Girls love compliments :)
Good Luck!
I would get her alone somewhere, maybe take her out somewhere romantic and tell her that you've developed some feelings for her and would like to take it to the next level if she would like that and if she feels ready. Don't tell her you love her just yet, it might scare her. Good luck, God bless.
Bring her some flowers that are tied to a box of chocolate. You can also have a tag tied to one of the flowers or a sticker, like on Christmas presents, which asks her out. You can leave it somewhere she will find it, or hand it to her directly. Be romantic about it, girls love romantic
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