What is real meaning of Love?

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My Question is What is real meaning of love? could any one here can explain about love, what is real love and how we can find the real love….

Category: Tags: asked November 27, 2014

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That depends on how you define real love some people defines it as just a partner who's willing to spend the rest of their lives together with them. Others need more than that they say real love is someone who understands you someone who shares your laughter and sadness someone to hold you when your down and someone that feels better when you hold them. Finding real love isn't easy just like finding real friends but to me it's something worth looking for. Basically you'll feel it once you find it :) I hope this helps and I wish you the best of luck :)
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Love exists, you see it everyday, a mother and her son, people in animal care volunteer centers, anywhere really, The release of oxytocin is the by-product of love, when you find someone compatible with yourself, you get a rush of emotion and happiness etc etc. Speaking from a viewpoint of someone who has experienced love, many people get divorced because people can grow apart. Love is not this rock solid bond formed between people, its the most fragile thing you can imagine, to love at all is to be vulnerable. Its like giving someone the ability to crush you completely and the ability to nurture you, but hoping that they choose to nurture you and in return you would to them. the reason so many people still love despite that is trust. The problem is many people marry and "fall in love" for the sake of physical pleasure, financial stability, 50% of couples get divorced. How much of that would you presume are from arranged marriages globally? having virtually nothing to do with love or attraction only financial stability, sometimes religious reasons and tradition. True love is when you love someone exactly the way they were before they met you, "The beginning of love is to let them be perfectly themselves and not be twisted to fit our own image. Otherwise you love only the reflection of ourselves you see in them" ( Thomas Merton) . some couples rush into marriage but aren't ready for the commitment so later on may get divorced because they ay not understand the depth of the bond they commit to. Good feelings end when your parter is no longer of interest to you/ and grow bored of you, or has slept with you. Thats not love, its temporary attraction. When you're in love, you love the person for who he is, not because you have something to gain, because his/her existence becomes valuable to you . It is indescribably to some extent, you'd do anything for them, go out of your way, it's unconditional. and i feel like ive drifted apart from my original point xD but regardless, I've felt love before. Its strong yet fragile, can be shattered by the smallest things, so fragile but always worth it. Keep in mind though, love isnt all good. Its alot of work and love means to open yourself up to the good and the bad of a person, you get joy, an intense feeling of euphoria, especially in new relationships. The thought of separation can be saddening for some couples. but only if you're able to sit down at a table with your partners worst horrors, face their past with them, their pain with them. are you really in love. the meaning of love is connection of two souls and its essence is vounrability :)
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thanks MJ that's really good answer you give and i also waiting for some more answers
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Love is the term for the emotion which will trigger your body to release various chemicals that will make you like that person and that will make you want to stay with them.
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From an objective point of view, versus my regular romantic ideology, I see love as a natural craving for intimacy projected onto another person.