What does it mean?

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So my ex boyfriend and I broke up about a month ago and we didn’t talk at all after the break up. But last week he randomly snapchatted me a picture of him dressed up at this important event because he’s the president of his student council class for the university that he attends. I sent him back a snap and said, “congrats” and then we were snapchatting. After a bunch of snaps, I sent him a snap and said “miss ya” and he replied and said. “I miss you too, hope all is well”. Then on Friday, we were snapchatting and he said that we should hang out on his next day off from work. I agreed to hanging out and he said, “I’ll be looking forward to seeing you”. Last night he snapchatted me and said “are you free tomorrow?” I said, “I think so” and he said, “let me know ”. Now here is the thing, ever since our break up, I’ve been putting up stories of me at parties with different guys because I used to never go out to parties or hang out with a lot of guys when we were together. Lately, I’ve been having fun and doing me and it has been great. The day of our break up, I read him this in depth letter telling him how I felt and after I finished reading it he said “I’m proud of you”. Anyway, maybe I’m overthinking everything, but I don’t know what any of this means. I thought I was over him because I’ve been happier and stress free ever since our break up, but I miss him. We didn’t end on bad terms and he’s a nice guy. On Friday, I went to see, ‘The Fault In Our Stars’ with my cousin and I had read the book a couple of months ago and we were supposed to go see it together, but that didn’t happen. Maybe this doesn’t mean much. But I want it to mean something. I’m scared that we’re going to hang out and it’s going to be as just friends. What do you guys think?

Category: Tags: asked June 9, 2014

2 Answers

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I would just consider being friends with him, brain over heart. You two broke up for a reason and I would leave it at that. He may just be jealous of you going to the parties and having fun with other guys. I would just hang out with him and let him know how you feel and on what terms you would like to be at. I wouldn't put too much thought into it because over thinking may be a bad thing and lead to worse problems then that is happening. I would just be friends with the guy and if things get more serious them them :)
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So you are not over him and you want it to mean something "We didn’t end on bad terms and he’s a nice guy" clearly tells that you still like him, but let me warn you, that we must always remember why our ex are ex because there were problems that made them ex otherwise they wont be ex so you might go back to him and might face the same situations as you did in past, but I hope it works out for you and means something because in the end if it is meant to be then it will be.