What do you do in a new relationship?


I’m in a relationship for the first time in my entire life and I have no idea what I’m doing. I’ve known this guy for a long time and I love him dearly. I’m a very shy person so I’m flustered all the time and probably look like an idiot in front of him. Any advice as to what to do on a date or what to do/how to act in general when it comes to dating?

Category: asked May 17, 2015

2 Answers

Honestly just act like yourself. If you are dating him that should mean you like him for who he is and he likes you for who you are. So be the one he likes; be you!
Come to know yourself, ask yourself questions? Why do I fear others? What do I fear? What is my relationship to that around me? Who am I? What can one do about fear? Understanding of oneself is wisdom and that understanding is the basis to our relationships. May peace be upon you.