Me and my current boyfriend of a year, well we had a huge falling out. The day of that, he texted his kids mom and she sent a picture of herself. Not naked or anything, in her halloween costume..and it really bothered me. Like, we had a big argument, I understand. But right when that happens you’re going to run right back to her? We argued about it. Lately he’s been saying he’s tired of the way that I act, that I don’t trust him, and I always question him. Like HELLO, of course I’m this way, he made me this way cause it wasn’t the first time he’s lied to me. I kept telling him to say to me that he didn’t want to be with me anymore, but he refuses to say it. But things are different now. He’s a douche bag, and he always has something smart to say. He doesn’t show me love and affection anymore and he always flips out on me for little shit. No matter what it may be, he’s always snapping at me. And he keeps telling me that I need to change. and I say that I’m going to but never do. But I’m not the only one that needs to change, and he makes it seem like I’m such a bad person. I’m wrong for having trust issues and all that. And I’ll be honest, I don’t trust him at all. Or her. I feel like he’s hiding shit from me now, but I don’t wanna be that crazy girlfriend all in his phone and stuff. I don’t know what to do, this relationship is tearing me apart. I just want it to be how it used to be. Just wanna feel loved again :’(