What do I do about my suicidal girlfriend?

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She has anorexia, and it makes her feel fat and ugly. (She’s not.) Her parents treat her like shit, and that’s why she cuts herself, and attempted suicide four times. I need help fast, because i don’t want a fifth attempt. I’ve tried complimenting every chance i get, she thought they were all forced, was depressed again. I’ve told her that she is loved, not only by me, but by almost everyone around her. I’ve asked her to come over to my house, just to get away from her parents, but all she did was cry, cut herself, and look at the scars from cutting herself. I can’t take the cutting, I’ve done it before myself but i don’t want her to feel pain, i will do anything for her so she’ll stop. I love this girl and I always will. Please help.

Category: Tags: asked November 16, 2013

4 Answers

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I think she needs some professional help. This is too big. You cannot save her all by your self. The best thing for her is to see a professional who can teach her some coping skills to learn how to deal with her feelings in a more positive way. Her pain is valid. She just needs to learn how to respond to her feelings. You cannot teach her that. So sorry you are going threw this:(
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How about let her feel she is safe and that no one will ever harm her when she is with you... and confront her parents that if they just treat her like shit then you will get her. She will stay with you so that you can protect her and no one will never let her feel alone. get her a psychiatrist for mental check-up.... if any trauma..etc. And let her feel that you will NEVER give up on her.... And you will always be there for her. Hope this helps... good luck! :)
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Broken 1, I've asked. She won't go see help. I'm out of ideas. I will do anything, even if it means getting rid of all knives, ropes, and sharp objects. But I know she is hurt. But I don't think its just her parents making her feel bad. There has to be something else. She refuses any help, and its only a matter of time, and i find her hanging from a rope, a gash in her neck and a bloody knife in her right hand, or a bottle of pills laying there lifeless. I'm scared because she is my everything. She is all I have, and the thought of her feeling pain is the only thing that can hurt me. I will take a bullet for her, and not even flinch. She falls down and skins her knee, and I feel terrible for her. I know pain. I cut myself before, I've even slit my throat before, but i survived, and I'm glad I did. She said I'm the reason there hasn't been a fifth attempt, but her condition is getting worse and she is going to.
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four times?? if she had not gone through with it by now, she is not gonna do it....hey, dont get me wrong..., im seriously hoping someone kicks both of your asses knocking some sence into ya's. ....btw, you two need to split up and find different bf and gf ...bexause your noth just as sorry as the other....your relationship has not grown ,...if anything you are pulling each other further down, amd most if it is out of pity for the other, you said so yourself......sheesh, hey , everybody has hard times, bad parents, no friends, thinks themselves fat and ugly etc etc etc. ....you cant 'save her' because your in the same boat...you want to so that action would validate you, in your mind, and give her the hero she so desperately is looking for, but between the two of you, its not gonna happen.........they reason they say oppisites attract for a reason, and that reason is a ying to a yang, when your low i pull you up when i'm low you pull me up.....but all you have to offer each other is baggage ...weighing you both down further.....i say split up now and battle your own deamons in your own way so when the right person for each of you appears in your lives you both will be ready to actually experiance what loving someone is like....but first you have gotta love yourself and no other person can show you how to do that, each one of us has to find that path on our own, ...good luck to you both, but not as one....