What caused this? (Sexual question)

Alriiiight so I’m a really sexual person.
I’m dirty minded, perverted, got a pretty high sex drive and plus I’m a masochist..
All my life I’ve had my high sex drive, but the other traits came along during puberty. But ever since I was a kid, and all my life, even if I lay down on my stomach I get a lot of stimulation from it. It’s also pretty easy to make me aroused, even if you watch a suspension movie with me, that will make me aroused…And I started masturbating at a young age without even knowing wtf it was, but I didn’t really penetrate, never done that. I think I’ve had over 500 orgasms in my life because of that and if they’re even considered orgasms.. Woah. #Slut

Anyways I’m just wondering what could of caused this? My friend was talking about pregnant women eating foods that affect their children forever so It got me thinking, could that be the cause for my perversion and stuff? Like maybe my mom ate a lot of estrogen foods? Or strawberries? Or could it perhaps been something else? I’m just wondering because my perversion is pretty extreme and annoying if you ask me.
Also if there is a chance you know how to get rid of this whole thing, I’d be more than glad. Thanks :3

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Uni

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Miss Anonymous, changing your name and asking the same question worded ten different ways is not going to get you a different answer.

If you are looking for someone to tell you that you are right, that you need to be brainwashed into being a Stepford Wife, then BlahTherapy is not the place for you. You have received advice from over a dozen people and yet you keep trying to get a different answer.

There is nothing wrong with being sexy. There is nothing wrong with being a masochist. There is nothing wrong with enjoying sex or masturbation, you are not sick and you do not need help to get rid of your sexuality, you need to accept and love yourself.

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Humanist Hope

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I think everyone is different, some people have high sex drives, some dont. Some have sexual thoughts tied to the forefront of their minds, some are too busy. In my personal opinion, people get aroused very often when they have nothing to do and are just bored. keep yourself busy and to avoid pleasing yourself frequently, I guess it's just raw willpower and resisting the temptation. The rate does decrease alot over time. and it's just to do with hormonal imbalances. Perversion is just you stuck in a mindset that you subconsciously want to be in or have conditioned yourself to be in. When seeing someone very attractive, your brains automatic impulse may to be sexualize the person and be perverted about the entire situation. You can fix that by realising when its happening and just avoiding the thought. keep doing that and soon enough, you'll get out of the habit :) If you have any more questions, Pm me ^^

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Dan

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I agree with Dan. You aren't perverted simply because masturbation feels good or may come easier to you. If you are still young, it's normal to have thoughts and get aroused often. You will to continue to grow mentally, emotionally and sexually.

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Hear2Listen

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