I’m 31, my 38 year old boyfriend of a year and a half moved back home to California in January. We still chat from time to time. He kept asking me to move there with him. I love my job and my daughter’s support system is here (school, therapies, grandparents, friends) – so I keep telling him no.
Well night before last I got text – thinking it was him – and started chatting like normal. It wasn’t him. The next morning he called to say that someone else had been using his phone to text me.
I had no idea he was with someone (which is something he should have told me). I wouldn’t even have considered texting him. Anyway this person (I’m assuming is his new girlfriend) said he was having an emotional affair with me.
I had no intentions of getting mixed into any craziness – but it seems I walked straight into it. Am I wrong to be weirded out by this interaction? I had pretty much gotten over him until she texted as if she was him, and said things that made me remember why I missed him. Ughhhh.
I wish she never would have text my number from his phone. I wish he would have told me he was seeing someone. I feel like an idiot.
I blocked the phone number, after his crazy phone messages that were clearly a fight between the two of them. I am feeling like a jumbled ball of emotions. I’m too old to be mixed up in something so ridiculous.
