Was this the right thing to do?

Okay so my best friend likes this girl that we’re all friends with. But when he’s with her he doesn’t act himself, he acts like someone different in order to get what he wants. In this case, her. And when we’re all together it’s like I’m not there. He ignores me and everything. So the other night me, him, her and another friend went out, but near the end of the night I said to the girl, “Whenever you wanna go just say because I’ll tag along as I live close”. And I had walked with my other friend to quickly take him to a bus stop. While I did that, my best friend and the girl walked home, without saying anything whatsoever. So that kinda pushed me to the limit. Today I decided it was enough, so I told the girl everything about him, how he acts different, what he did in his previous relationship and everything. But she didn’t care at all, she didn’t even acknowledge what I said…

Do you think I did the right thing?

Category: Dating & Relationships asked June 9, 2014

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William

2 Answers

Damn, going nuclear like that might now have been a very wise decision. Love makes blind. Giving all your friend's secrets away that easily is a dick move. You could've talked it out with your best friend, but I don't think you're really his best friend, because that again is a dick move. He wants to be alone with his new girlfriend, give him space, now you created unnecessary awkward situation, she is probably gonna tell him what happened and he'll side with her. Let him have her and in a week or two he'll come around and you'll best friends again, that is if you don't make this situation worse. And that walking home crap wasn't personal they wanted to be together to kiss and stuff and you were in their way, like a third wheel. I feel so bad for writing this, but it's the truth. Good luck ;)

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Veritas

If you didn't like what your friend did, you should have confronted him instead of making assumptions. Without any of "the talking" with your friend about this issue, you shouldn't have judged without facts and went to the girl and bitch him out even if they were true, the girl would probably think you were jealous of him to bitch out an own friend and would have decided not to trust you instead. You should have grasped the bull by its horns and insisted discuss this one on one.

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Madhu