Was he only in it for sex?

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Normally, I’m good at reading guys, but the one I love is a little harder to read than most.
It’s my ex, only recently have we started hanging out again. He says a lot of things that would suggest that he’s into me again, things like “Man I’ve missed you” and “I haven’t met anyone I’ve connected with the same way I connect with you.” and always asks me questions like “Did you ever have those nights where you’d miss me?” and “How come you never invite me out?” and on top of all that, he tells me that I’m cuter in my PJ’s, and that I have the cutest laugh.

Last Sunday, I went to his and we kissed, and two days later when he invited me over, we were intimate. I haven’t heard from him since, but when I left he said “I’ll see you soon.”

He’s a total romantic, and I know him well enough to know that he doesn’t do those things with just anyone. He’s had a romantic connection to everyone he’s had sex with. It’s only been two days, should I invite him out seeing as he’s been the one to do it twice in a row? Was he only in it for sex?

asked December 20, 2013

4 Answers

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if he hasn't talked to you in two days then i'm afraid so i'm sorry i hope not but i think it might be true i tried getting back together with my ex and he said those exact things but he just wanted nudes from me. you can never rust your ex no matter what they say.
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If he's already asked you why you don't invite him out, then I think you should ask him out before you jump to any conclusions. It's possible that he thinks you were just in it for sex too. Maybe he's just trying to "play it cool." Try talking to him and hanging out before making your mind up. I don't think it's fair to say to never trust your ex, not all guys are the same.
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You seem to know him so well. So you can tell/feel if he's in it just for sex or not. If he's invited you out every time so far, yea it wouldn't hurt for you to invite him out this time.
You said yourself he doesn't do these things with just anyone. Why don't you talk to him about it? Ask him what's going on and how he feels?
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Just go out and see how things go, if he is only pushing towards the sex, you'll know. Just try and have a good time and see how things go from there. If you already have a bad feeling, just talk it out with him and ask him questions . Figure it out and see how your heart feels about it.