Trust Issues?

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Okay so my name is Sammie. I used to live in Virginia but a little over a year ago, I moved to Las Vegas. While I lived in Virginia, I had kind of an on & off thing with this guy, who I am honestly pathetically in love with. I’ve been struggling with depression for a very long time & I went through quite a phase where I didn’t care about anything. I wasn’t interested in relationships or being with one person. The idea of commitment scared me & when feelings & shit got real, I had no idea what to do. Now I’m more mature, grew up a little bit but unfortunately, though I am now here, the name I made for myself & my past still seems to cause trouble for not only me but him. I’ve struggled with depression, addiction, abuse, etc. & so has he & I think that it brings us together because we understand each other. But regardless, he doesn’t trust me because of what I used to do. Though I’ve grown up since then & I’ve changed, he still has a hard time trusting me & I’m honestly wondering if it’s even worth it anymore. Because yes, I do love him but he doesn’t trust me, & hes got this girl there who he cut things off with for me but I don’t think hes 100 percent sure that he wants to be with anymore, & I have too much self respect to continue to stay with someone who doesn’t know what they want anymore.

Category: Tags: asked November 24, 2013

2 Answers

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If he can't be mature enough to understand people can change and mature, maybe he isn't worth it. Socialise, spread your wings, you might find someone better.
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Don't be with someone who isn't sure if they want to be with you. Everyone goes through struggles but its not fair to play with your emotions while they are trying to figure it out. If its meant to be, it will work out in the end, but don't stay around while he's not 100% sure.