Thin, Fat, Skinny, Husky, & All In Between . . .

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Weight has been a big issue for a long time and the media doesn’t help. Honestly, I’m not small in any way, shape, or form. However, I still consider myself very beautiful regardless of that matter and I do intend on working on my weight. Then again, for some people it’s just not the same… It’s a true problem and they’re not confident. For example, there are plenty of skinny women out there who are starting to call themselves ‘thick’. Which in media terms is ‘thin’ instead of ‘FAT’. I’ve seen a lot of skinny chicks trying to gain more weight, instead of being happy with skinny. It almost seems as if many women are going mad with pushing themselves in the opposite direction. Skinny wanting to be ‘thick’ and ‘heavy’ wanting to be ‘skinny’. I hope none of you find the terms I’m using offensive, I’m just using them so that people can relate to what I’m saying. In other words, I have one last example which boggles me: Eastern women, (Asian women specifically) live in a much different culture than Western women. I read up an article one day about what men and women on that side of the world consider ‘FAT’ and it’s much more different than to what we see in ‘America’. Now, I’m not saying that this is FACT, it was more of a survey in state of opinions, so please do not take offense to what I’m about to say. Apparently because of their diets, (which I would agree is much healthier since rice, sea food, and veggies are regularly in their meals) the way they metabolize food is a bit different–according to the article (which if I can find, I’ll add to this question) and if they even gain the slightest weight, it could effect them greatly because of the diets they’re brought up with culturally and that they’re more prone to weight related diseases because of it. Now, don’t quote me on this, but this is just what I read–If I’m not mistaken it was through VICE probably a year ago. Anyway, what I’m trying to get at is this . . . How do you feel about body weight? Be honest.

Category: Tags: asked May 8, 2014

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Honestly, to me, body weight it merely a factor in health (and not a deciding factor). As long as someone is a healthy organism, then their weight is perfect. What is optimal in a healthy sense varies from individual to individual, of course. Personally, I am attracted to people who look and act healthy (physically, emotionally, and mentally), which has ranged from very slim to very "thick."
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Personally as long as someone is happy or healthy mentally about it, then I can't disagree with them. Sure there are the extremes, like being way under weight and vice versa, but anything in between ins't bad. I'm actually underweight for my height and size, so I'm in the process of improving my mass and weight to get to where I want to be through working out. My girlfriend has this idea of "perfection" she needs and it's getting better as we workout, but still it sticks to her that she needs to look like a supermodel, which I find unhealthy. So to me body weight is based of perception and how we personally deal with it
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I think women who are trying to gain weight are doing so because they're either recovering from an eating disorder or trying to get toned, the way guys try to put on weight when building muscle. It's just, girl world doesn't usually consider muscle a good thing, so we call it toned instead. It's the same thing for us as it is for men. So maybe by 'thick' you mean toned and fit? As for my personal views about my body... I'm happy with my body, I care less about my weight than I do about my overall ability to do things. I am into a lot of outdoor activities, but I am limited in what I am capable of doing by my inadequate level of fitness. I am currently trying to get into better shape. I workout because I love my body, not because I hate it. My goal is to be able compete in a sprint triathlon at the end of this year, and an ironman within 2 years.