The end of a friendship because of me?

I had this friend who I fell in love with over a long time. I told them how I felt but they didn’t love me the same way I wanted them to. I felt like crap until they told me that I was their best friend and it made me feel a whole lot better. However those feelings still dwell inside of me as much as I don’t want them to, I hate it. I want to be friends without the weird lingering feeling! But how do I overcome this thought? How do I just take away those haunting feelings because literally I feel like we can’t be friends under these circumstances, but I don’t want that. I want to stay friends, but I dont want it to end what we have just because i said something wrong.

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Marsha M.

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it's nothing bad expressing your feelings to someone you like but if it's going to end your relationship then I suggest you both just act like normal because if you make it weird that's where it will end up at go with the flow and see what happens from there

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Kimberly

Just don't let it get between you. I actually had a friend who said that he liked me and I told him I wanted his friendship more and there were other circumstances that would make the relationship fall apart. But he still talks to me the same way and our relationship is still the same. Maybe he feels as you do, but I would hope he would confront me about it since I'm honest with him and expect the same in return. If they are willing to continue the friendship and let go of the confession, just try and breathe easy. :)

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SilentRain

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