Stupid people

0

So I’m a girl with a best friends who’s a guy. Despite who I talk to at school he is the only person I talk to outside of school…ever. So I do generally talk about him quite a bit but that’s really only because I don’t talk to anyone else and I don’t do anything else so there is really nothing for me to talk about! A few people have begun to believe that I have a crush on him and/or he has a crush on me. At first I didn’t care because it doesn’t matter. But now people are making fun of how much I talk to him and what we say to eachother (we say I love you every night) and it’s really really starting to bug me. Does anyone know what I can do about this?

Tags: asked October 23, 2013

10 Answers

4
You have to determine which is more important; your reputation in school, or your friendship? It seems like this boy is a really good friend and it would be a shame to lose him or your friendship because of little rumors. I've learned that the more you ignore people's jokes, the quicker they are to stop. It's not fun for them if you aren't giving a response. Just roll your eyes and keep walking. Make sure your friend knows how you feel and maybe he can help. Keep your head up girl Hope it all works out(:
1
I'd tell them off. If you like him or not, how does that affect them in anyway? like who the hell cares? If a girl and a boy are close, always hanging out, and tell each other things in confident, people automatically assume, oh they got something going on. I never understood why people can't honestly get it through their thick skulls that two people of the opposite sex can be friends without any feelings involved. That's one thing that pisses me off about high schoolers, they'll spread rumors and what not like God, get a life! If y'all want to know the truth, come to the motherfucking source, me. Also, it can get annoying if you tell someone no, they'll keep on insisting that it's yes. It's so annoying. Again, I would tell them off and hope they'll stop and get them some business.
0
I have been at the same place some months ago...for now just ignore what others say! there is anything you can do to change that or anything you can tell them! But keep in mind that they may be right...you may not see it now, but something will happen between you two eventually!
0
Don't worry about what other people think! What you guys think is what matters. If you have a crush or not, it's nobody else's business and it's not worth losing a friendship over. Just ignore the people giving you grief and it will eventually stop :)Lots of love xx
0
Don't listen to them. If they believe that then let them. They are just jealous that he has a best friend like you.
0
Agreed with everyone else. It seems like you have a good friendship. Don't let haters destroy it.
0
Dude, fuck what everyone thinks. You can't really change how they act, just ignore them.
0
Who the hell cares what you're doing with that guy?? What is wrong with these idiot kids?? I don't understand why everybody has to be in everybody's business when they're in school. I think you're right when you titled your post. They're just stupid people. Don't let them mess with a good friendship or whatever you want it to be.

I will say this. If I could go back in time when I was in school there'd be a lot more bloody noses and it wouldn't be mine! GL.
0
Ignore those who say what they think at school. If you are just friends with him and everyone thinks you aren't them tell everyone to fuck off.
0
I had the same issue in middle school. One of my best friends was a dude, and we hung out often. People kept asking if we were dating, and we would just end up saying "NO." One girl said she was going to come to our wedding, which was really weird. We shared a sibling-like relationship, and we still do to this day, even though we can't see each other very often. My advice is to just forget about what other people think. Don't let them ruin a great friendship.