Someone please help/ talk to me?


Throughout my life, I have had both my parents separated from me and my life because of drugs. I have lived with my Aunt for all my life. I talk to my biological Mom sometimes, but its not like all of my friends do with their Mom. I have been having this bad separation anxiety from my Dad lately and all he seems to care about is his band & music. I’ve been trying to call him for months and there’s still no response. He didn’t even call me on my birthday. I just feel so alone. What should I say to him? I want my Daddy. Shouldn’t any daughter?

Category: asked July 9, 2013

2 Answers

Maybe he doesn't realize how you need him there for you. He's probably caught up in his own thing that he doesn't realize that he should be there for his daughter, if he doesn't pick up the phone I would say write a letter to him telling him how you feel about him not contacting you or anything. Release and vent your feelings through that.
I know how you feel. My father has never been there for me, we've never had a normal relationship, I even resent him sometimes. But he is still my father and I need him, to some extent. I wrote him a hand written letter, a very long one and spilled my heart out on that paper. Keep calling him, but maybe you can write him a letter or an email. Tell him how you feel, give him an ultimatum. I'm sure he'll come through even a little bit, but if for some reason he doesn't, then sweetheart you're better off without him. You're never alone, I understand how you feel. If you ever want to talk, I'm here for you.