Social problems related to weight

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I am supper skinny like unhealthily so, I didn’t do this to my self and I’ve never though I was fat. I just got really sick. Now people ask me how I got this skinny and if I can coach them on how to get to where I am. People want what I have the problem is that I have made myself get so much less healthy by losing all this weight. I am in pain, I faint and spend most of my time dizzy and there are so many more issues. I have friends that when I say I’m trying to put on weight and it’s not working respond with I wish I had your problems. And when other girls arn’t asking for what I have they are making fun of me and how I look now, they call me am attenchion whore, a skinny bitch, anerexic and really are the nice ones. I just don’t know what to do

Category: asked December 11, 2014

2 Answers

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To the people who ask you for dieting tips, say something like "Dude, I'm sick. I don't think that's how you want to be skinny." or "I'll trade you. I'll have your weight, and you can have my extreme dizziness and pain."

For your friends, if you've explained why you need to gain weight and they're still not sympathetic, you might just have to give up hope that they'll understand. They're probably dealing with their own weight-related issues, and even though yours are worse, it's hard for them to empathize. If you have a facebook, you can always find an article explaining why being underweight is dangerous and post it to their wall, but I wouldn't push it. Sounds like you need all the friends you can get when the other people in your school are so terrible.

As for those other people, I'm not sure how to handle them. You can try getting your friends to defend you, calling the teacher on them, or telling them that they're being horrible and seeing if they have any human decency, but in the end, I don't know what stops people from bullying.
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well i think report the bullies problem to your teacher is kind of a bad choice because what if the students hate you and they wont stop the bullies after they got punished by the teacher? they will hate you even more. well if somehow they just kept bullying you, wont stop teasing about your skinny problem, well just ignore them. haters gonna hate. i know its kind of suffering to hold your feelings but what else can you do? society is cruel and you have to face the reality. just let them do whatever they want. give them a smile after they tease you. dont make youself depressed or down just because of the bully. its not worth it. try to ignore it. take high roads.