I believe she’s two years younger than myself, we don’t share any classes or pass by each other between them and I’m looking for any excuse to talk to her or just drop a compliment. However, this has proven difficult as she’s almost always in a group of friends and I can’t find a way to catch her attention, it’d be really out of place for me to approach her circle of friends, does anyone have advice?
I'm in exactly the same situation as yours, except that she's my classmate and she actually conversed with me a bit of times, but still I'm way too nervous around her nowadays. I need some suggestions as well regarding the same, since I know how it feels when you want to become friendly with the girl you like but there are many other girls around her, which could make them suspicious of me trying to talk to that particular girl all of a sudden. And it gets even more painful when you want to talk to her but don't have a topic that would fit the situation, even though you're in the same class as her.
Be confident. You want her go get her. Remember ur the older more mature guy to her. Walk uo to her tell her you think shes pretty and loved to get to know her how about a date after achool lets take a walk to the park. Girls dont care what u do on dates just lead it be confident find out about her passions dreams see if shes cool enough for you and if not try again. Love is free flowing bro you got this
I think you should approach her while she is in her group of friends. You can also try and get her number or find her social media. In order to get to the information it all starts with you approaching her and saying how you really feel. Don't come on to strong but just enough to let her know you've noticed her and would like to start a friendship, and then see where this takes you. Good luck :)
As a girl whos been on the receiving end of a guy being unable to talk to me, please do this girl a favor and talk to her, she may feel the same way about you. For me and this guy this exact situation has been going on for three years now and hes graduating next month and by only having 2 conversations we are leaving a lot of things unsaid, things that cause confusion. So please avoid the mind games and mixed signals and just talk to her, if you dont feel comfortable around her friends pull her to the side and just say you have a question, its totally worth it especially when she likes you back. Good luck!
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