So I’ve been talking to this girl for about a month and a bit and we’ve met up twice sunday being the most recent which i think went well, we met up for coffee as she was meeting a friend. The thing i’m having trouble with is at the moment her dad has be diagnosed with a serious illnes. so she and her family have got a lot on at the moment, i’ve said to her if she needs anything she knows where i am. I’ve also got my final exams in few weeks which she knows about. When we chat to each other the conversation flows and i think we get on really well, last saturday our messages got a little heated as she was in a cheeky mood so thats a good sign i think. I’m just looking for some advice as it’s a bit of strange situation As i feel im bothering her when i text her because of her situation. I would like a relationship with her but I dont know if thats what she wants or its the right time and she might want someone to be close with as whats going on with her dad.