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I’m sixteen years old and i took on the habit of smoking, i don’t smoke cigarettes, i smoke with a pipe and tobacco.i don’t smoke very often, only when i’m extremely stressed. i stole the pipe and a small bag of tobacco from my aunt’s house when we had a get together. I didn’t tell anyone except for my little sister. she doesn’t like the fact that i do and is mad at me for doing it. when we were arguing she threatened to tell our mom. i regret telling her because everytime i do she holds it against me in argiments and blabs to the whole world my secrets. I remember one day she yelled out for everyone at my dad’s house who i liked at school. i don’t know if i made a mistake or not.

Category: asked June 7, 2013

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There are healthier ways of dealing with stress than that. You are underage and capable of so much more in your life than deteriorating it so early with smoking. I started smoking at 14 and it's a struggle to quit a decade later! When stressed, find something that makes you happy, something positive and go for that instead of tobacco. It can be a hobby, a type of music, a TV show, exercise REALLY helps, anything other than bad habits. It may just be the pipe and tobacco now, but it could lead to cigarettes and other bad habits. As far as your little sister, siblings are always an issue at some point. I think that she is concerned about what you are doing and also trying to be somewhat of a brat by holding it against you in an argument to get what she wants from you. The best thing you can do there is to stop doing what you're doing and realize she's your little sister and probably means well, just doesn't show you. My sister drove me crazy! But as time progressed everything fizzled out. Be a role model for your little sister. She may be mad at you for doing that because she looks up to you. Be the person you want her to be even if she gets on your nerves. Best of luck! <3
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I think she is just worrying about you and your health, you're close to her, that's obvious. I advise you to try to give up smoking, whatever you smoke. It's a real bad habit which harms your health. If you don't have a strong addiction to tobacco, it's even better, you may try vaping, thought. It's not so harmful, but actually helps to wind up and get your nerves back. I believe that 16 is just this age of trying new things and being "cool", so it'll be totally harmless, if you vape nano disposable as it's ideal for the beginners and there are usually offered different tastes. I can suggest a reliable vape shop with qualitative affordable products, in case you'll decide to move to vaping. By the way, if you wanna https://www.aquavape.co.uk, this shop is perfect. What I enjoy is that they have a wide array of products and offer pretty often various discounts. So, try to listen to your sister and be "cool" without tobacco.