Situational love?

My best friend of 2 years is gay. I knew that going into the friendship, or as I seem to call it, a relationship. We expect the same from each other, maybe even more, as those in love. Well I am. I can’t help that my feelings got in the way after spending hours together, holding hands and acting in love… meaningless to him but everything to me. I have never confessed this, even anonymously. I am feeling helpless to my feelings. How do I get over this.

Category: Dating & Relationships asked January 2, 2014

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I think the best way is to tell your friend about your feelings. Then see where it takes you from there.

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LonelyDalek

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Firstly, it's normal to develop such feelings after 2 years. But are you sure it's love? Maybe it's just the desire to be with someone. After 2 years being really close, you could be clouded into thinking that you are in love with him. If you are indeed in love with him, I think the most helpful thing would be to tell him instead of keeping it bottled up.

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Rst82