Sisters marriage

Just want to jump right into it…

My sister is 36 she has been married for 10 years.
For the past 6 years she has had 2 pregnancy with 2 other men (not husband) multiple “relationships” boyfriend…
Her husband was cough i the shower with another women by my sister.And having sex with other women. He has taken thousands of dollar for motels prostitutes and restaurants.
(thats just cutting the list short)
They are ALWAYS fighting.. in front of family, co works.. always fighting..!

Now seeing and knowing this she tells me that she feels its her honeymoon stage still and loves him.
My sister has slept with mostly all of his friends. multiple times..

And she thinks a baby with SAVE them!

I know its wrong to get involved with someones marriage, but should i say something of just let her live her life?

Category: Family asked April 1, 2015

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Sandy

3 Answers

I think it would be a good idea to just talk to your sister about her marriage, but don't tackle the issue right away. It would be better to know why they cheat on each other and how the problem first occurred in order to better understand their situation, and then suggest the idea of marriage counseling. Because the counseling might have a better chance of saving the marriage rather than another child. And, try to say it in the least offensive way as possible because she might feel attacked if you tell her straight on.

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lifejacket

I definitely agree that a child should not be introduced into the situation, that sounds like a terrible environment to grow up in. But I also think that you might want to put some distance between yourself and the situation, as it isn't your fault or responsibility, and sounds extremely stressful. If you feel like she would take you seriously, maybe tell her about your concerns but don't involve yourself any further.

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Amanda

Introduce the idea of becoming Swingers. Married couples that have casual sex with other married couples just for the sake of enjoying a more exciting sex life. Obviously they both get off on having sex with someone other than their spouse, and if the two of them have stayed together for this long, they might actually love each other. And all of the anger and fighting might just be that stress and sexual aggravation. I know that's probably more into your sisters marriage you care to get into but it might be the answer.

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Kristina