Shud I give up?

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Ok..,asked before , the colleague I was hanging out with for 3or so weeks got posted in another town for this month. Was planning to ask him for a relationship last weekend when he was gonna come over. As I asked before, till a week back we were texting frequently on hw we r missing our dinner ners together etc and we shud meet up..that’s wen he said he’ll come over on Sunday and I thought I’ll confess. But the next day things cooled off suddenly and Sunday plans cancelled cos his friends went to visit him. Everyone here suggested that I don’t act needy and gv him space. I haven’t been making any attempt to text him..and neither has he texted in 3days.. I dunno wat hpnd overnight.. Now my Q is shud I just give up on this or ask him out regardless of wat his answer me be?
Ps : in all my past relationships..the guy seems to change overnight.. As in one night he is all normal nd d very nxt day he cools off.. I’m really upset by this.. I feel it’s some kind of a jinx.. Please help me

Category: Tags: asked September 9, 2015

3 Answers

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I saw people in your other questions calling you needy, but I truly don't think you were. But besides that, maybe this guy isn't the one for you. I find it strange that one day he's friendly with you, but the next he acts like you don't exist. Perhaps he's been busy? But still. You're hurt by it. If you really want to, you can take the chance and just come right out and confess to him. But I'm starting to wonder if maybe you should try to move on instead.
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Thanks so much for ur support.. U nd layla hv bn supporting me thru out this.. I'm really grateful
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@elizabethfke12 You're very welcome. :) You deserve the support, and you definitely don't deserve to go through this alone. I appreciate you keeping us all updated on the situation, too. If you need any more help, I'm always here.