So throughout the month of May I dated a baseball player at my university, Nico. At first everything was sweet. He knew all the right things to say. He would say good morning beautiful every morning etc… and at first I didn’t trust him. My instincts told me he was a player. Before we were in a relationship I asked some friends about him and they told me that he’s a player. I confronted him about it and he told me that his personality came off that way… blah blah blah I fell for it. Well we got on to the topic of sex a few weeks into dating and I told him that I wasn’t willing to give up my virginity yet. He said he’d wait, but I’ve heard that before. By the end of the month he went from treating me like a princess to ignoring me and making me feel so completely insignificant. He just stopped talking to me or barely responding. I never really got an explanation but I think part of the reason was because I didn’t give him what he wanted. About two weeks ago he messaged me on Facebook and apologized to me, but he still never gave a reason why. Well today I saw a girl posted on his timeline (we’re still friends on facebook so it pops up on my timeline) saying that they’ve been texting and how he’s so sweet. She’s an incoming Freshmen and in my major. Should I warn her about Nico? I don’t think he’s a bad person or anything but I don’t think he’s treating women right either. So should I warn her about him or is it none of my business?
If I do warn her I feel like she would just tell him. I still have the Facebook messages but it’s the only thing I have that makes me credible. I’ve never met her though. I’m so torn.
