Should I wait to breakup, or get it over with?


So me and this guy have dated on and off or 6 years. I am now a senior in high school, and he became homeschooled sophomore year. He isn’t the way he used to be… He smokes a lot, he picked up cigarette smoking even though i told him that was the one thing i wouldn’t stand for (but I did), he is technically still a sophomore because he doesn’t have the motivation to do his school work, and his parents are just around to keep him happy. We still get along just fine, but he’s so boring (all he wants to do is cuddle and watch movies; I’m a very hyper and outdoorsy person), and all the other things I listed bother me a lot. Like I said, we JUST started dating again. We have been best friends and/or dating for 6 years. Should I break up with him now, or wait it out? I was planning on ending it when I go to college anyways, but he told me he was thinking of moving in with his sister in the same city so we could be together. AH WHAT DO I DO? I can’t break his heart, but I have to move on with my life and eventually find a boy who wants to do the same.

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2 Answers

Maybe some questions might help... Do you love him? Do you want him to be with you when you go to college? His parents won't be around, will that bring him out to being more independant? His sister will probably have her own life plans and staying there will probably be temporary, will he get himself a place? You could have great fun together as the first time away from home, but you need to both see the potential in it and have faith in each other for it to work.
well if you have already made up your mind i guess the sooner the better