Should I tell my boyfriend that I think his mother is creepy?
My boyfriends mother is very creepy and too involved. She has found my e-mail address and have e-mailed me. She always seems to be around and even picked out the present that he gave me. He doesn’t seem to pick up on the fact that I don’t like her. I’m really worried that it will hurt him and that his mother wont let us talk and hang out. I’m wondering if I should tell him.
I think you should tell him, but don't be too cruel or too direct, just bring it up, like accidentally. But also say that you don't mean to offend him or his mother, say that you just found it creepy, that's all. But remember, you can never be too careful when it comes to this. Hope I helped!
Maybe "your mom is creepy" is a bit harsh, but you can ask him "Hey, can we spend some time alone?", or "Your mom really likes to spend time with us, but sometimes I would like to be just me and you, can we arrange that?" in many variations. Maybe even plan some time where you voluntarily spend time with him and her, so she gets her share of involvement, some weekly time confined activities like coffee together. As for your worries, she seems to like you so far, so let's deal with that when/if it happens. Try to be polite and diplomatic, it's still his mom.