should i tell him i love him?

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I just miss my best friend right now and lately I’ve been doing a lot of thinking about life. I started thinking about my blessings and thought of him and it made me really sentimental and i just want to tell him how much I love him, but I’m worried it will be weird…thoughts?

Category: asked June 16, 2014

8 Answers

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What kind of love is it, though? Platonic or romantic? In either ways it's fine to tell him, of course, but it'd be nice to precise which kind, otherwise he might get confused.
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In my opinion, you should express your feelings, but do clarify what kind of love are you referring to. Be clear. Otherwise, telling a person you like them this much (in whichever sense it is) never really hurts the person (in such situations). Also, i agree with what DJ Not Nice has written
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Ah take a shot and tell him,.... but no matter what the results are afterwards one things for sure, your relationship will never be the same again....either way though, your relationship is constantly changing anyways so give it a shot, you might be suprized.
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It all depends on what kind of love you feel. If platonic, and I suspect it is, go for it. I'm fairly certain that your best friend would feel the same way anyway. If romantic, let me tell you something. I told my crush that I liked him and well. Let's just say it was an emotional rollercoaster. For me anyway, I doubt he can care less. if it is romantic, you ought to be prepared for any consequences, both positive and negative. If you're looking for a relationship, just be careful that neither of you get too hurt in the end. It's your call.
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I don't really think there's any one right answer to this -- just do whatever scares you the least. Maybe try to let it come up naturally, if you can, and not just spring it on him out of the blue -- that would freak me out, I know. Remember that if you haven't brought it up yet, you still have time to do so later. Don't rush into telling him just because you're feeling a little emotionally overwhelmed; find the right time. This may also help you think of a right way to say it.
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Justo do it, you never know what might happen tomorrow and in the end you end up regretting more what you didn't do then what you did. Show him how you feel.
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You see a lot of girls/boys who have an opposite sex would develop feelings for the other. So it is really up to you. But I do hope you'd clarify if what you are feeling is love for him or just admiration. And if it is you could take that burden from your chest that you hid for so long. BUT ALSO DO REMEMBER TO FACE WHAT EVER CONSEQUENCES AND PAIN IT WOULD END. You should be ready for what outcome it might bring..The options are you tell him what you feel, take all those loads from your chest and maybe have a positive result..Or tell him but could lead that he doesn't want to destroy your friendship and just want to be friends..or not tell him at all..and just hid it..till it fades away or nott...
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You see a lot of girls/boys who have an opposite sex would develop feelings for the other. So it is really up to you. But I do hope you'd clarify if what you are feeling is love for him or just admiration. And if it is you could take that burden from your chest that you hid for so long. BUT ALSO DO REMEMBER TO FACE WHAT EVER CONSEQUENCES AND PAIN IT WOULD END. You should be ready for what outcome it might bring..The options are you tell him what you feel, take all those loads from your chest and maybe have a positive result..Or tell him but could lead that he doesn't want to destroy your friendship and just want to be friends..or not tell him at all..and just hid it..till it fades away or nott...