Im not looking to be judged or treated like crap. I know what i have done was wrong and i suffered the consequences for my actions. Im in a different place with my life and im finally happy again. Okay so about three years ago I cheated on my husband with his brother. Naturally that’s what ended the marriage. So now I have been in a LDR for a yr and 4 months. Well this morning he asked if I would wanna runaway and get married. I told him I want to run away but not so sure about the married thing. I always told myself that I would want to date him in person before we ever took the next step. So I’ve been fighting myself for so long on whether or not tell him the real reason why my marriage failed. I want to do it in person and not over text/phone and we will see each other in a couple of months so that would be the best opportunity.