Should i tell her or not?

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This is the first time I’ve ever had a crush on the same sex. I really want to tell her how I feel but I don’t know if it’ll ruin our friendship or make things awkward between us. I don’t know what to do, because a part of me is telling me to tell her the other is like no it’s a really bad idea. What should I do?

Category: asked November 30, 2013

4 Answers

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hey hun, people can get feelings for the opposite sex all of the time although most people will deny it,but you need to work out if your feelings are maybe sexual or that you love her so much as a friend.if they arent just freindly feelings i still believe you should tell her because if you dont she will probably notice if ur acting all awkward around her.if shes a good friend im sure she will be fine with what you say either way and stand by you good luck xx
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I believe that you should tell her because If she was truly your friend then it shouldn't matter. Just follow your gut feeling
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There is a chance that she WOULD feel awkward. But if you feel like there can be a successful relationship between you two, tell her. I suggest you tell her that you can't tell if the feelings you have for her are serious, but if that she says yes, that she has the same feelings, that you can commit to them. I hope things work out for you!
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Yeah i think that first you should focus on whether your feelings are only sexual or emotional too. Then if you really see a future with her, i think you owe it to her to let her know how you're feeling. And like they said, if she's a good friend, there shouldn't be anything awkward to worry about. The thing is, getting your feelings out in the open is so healthy and you'll feel a lot better about everything when you do. Good luck and stay strong:)