So my best friend (who’s a girl, and I’m a girl too) just confessed to me yesterday, and I think I like her back. I told my mom about it and she said she’ll love me no matter what decision I make. However, she said I should think about my decision for a while and weight out my options. She’s worried that I will get made fun of in high school and that my friends might abandon me (which I highly doubt, since the majority of them are bisexual). I really want to experience new things and see what my feelings are.
I’ve been thinking about it, and I realize that I really do like her (gender doesn’t appeal to me what so ever in her case, I love her the way she is) and that I want to say yes. I am, however, some what afraid that my mom won’t let us have sleep overs together and plan our costumes for a convention we’re going to (In fear that we’ll touch each other or something, but I’m not interested in that tbh).
I have this all planned out (I think I thought over it really well.) So we’ll keep the relationship private at some sorts and won’t go announcing to everyone that we’re dating and won’t have any sort of public affection (holding hands, kissing, etc. it’s annoying when couples do that anyway so). If the time comes, however, when one of our friends or something asks if we’re dating we’ll just say yes and act as though it’s nothing. Also, before we even began dating, I was thinking of telling her that if things don’t work out I don’t want any hatred between us, that I still want to be her friend even if we didn’t click or something like that.
I really don’t know what to do… Should I say yes to her confession and ask her out? Or no?
