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Should I support my friend or tell her my real feelings?

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I love my best friend however I really dislike her boyfriend. He has been bringing up marriage, even though they’ve only been dating 5 months. He is serious about it and when I asked her if she would say yes, she said “yes.” Do I tell her it is a mistake, I am scared to lose her, and it’s too early? This would risk our friendship. Or do I support her and fake a smile the whole time?

Category: asked May 20, 2013
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You should tell her how you really feel and give her proper reasons and explanation. It is better to say it now than have any of you regret it later. She's your best friend so she will understand. Good luck! Take care :)
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.... tell her how you feel.....not what you think.....
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True friends say no to when someone is about to make a mistake. Five months is NOTHING. They may marry, but it'll end up in divorce and suffering. At least have the peace of mind to know you tried to stop her. But don't be emotional about it, be rational. Explain to her the why's and then, only then, how you feel. If she is your friend as you are hers, she'll understand.
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