should I really be mad?

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my mom has been going out A LOT lately and it frustrates me sooo much! she has just gotten divorced and literally has already been in 2 relationships!! I feel as if I’m just not enough but of course she says otherwise she’s also always angry at me for the slightest things…she always trys to make it up. now shes sending me to nyc for spring break..what’s wrong??

Category: asked October 18, 2013

4 Answers

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Your mums just going through some changes of her own, maybe trying to get some life back. Have you tried talking too her and telling her how you feel inside? If yo don't want to go to NYC, just tell her, she can't really make you go. As for the anger, is she bottling her feelings up about the divorce? It could be a number of things, stress, anxiety, etc because if your mum and you usually get along fine, then there's probably something going on with your mum, just try speaking too her about :) Good luck!Lots of love xx
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you should go to your mom and talk to her about how you feel hun. you cant control what she does shes a grown adult and has every right to date. i understand that you may not like it and its hard but you gotta try to be understanding. you dont wanna hold a grudge and fight with your mom have a calm relaxing one on one convo. you dont wanna lose the relationship you have with your mom. because of something where to happen youd regret it for the rest of your life. stay strong and express your feeling to her calmly. i wish you the best with this situation. if you ever need to talk feel free to message me.
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I believe that you shouldn't be mad at your mother for dating. She is an adult and everyone needs someone in their life, except from their child. Instead you should talk to her about how you support her in all her choice and say that you want her to do the same. You should do what you really want in your spring break and your mother should understand that. After all if you don't do what you really want you will regret after years!
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Tell her that you miss spending time with her and you wish that she would stop going out so much. Teller that you support her but you don't want her to get crazy with it.