Should I pursue a girl that lives in another state?

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This girl ive known for a few years, she has severe depression, Schizophrenia, Anorexia, but I still love her. She lives in Texas, I live in AZ, I have enough money to have her visit me. I think she may feel better away from her negative family, she doesnt have many friends. Any advice or experiences?

Category: asked April 14, 2014

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If you do, be VERY cautious. I'm assuming you've gotten the chance to see her via Skype or some other service and that you have talked on the phone and what not with her. So, that being said, and that you've known her a few years, and your age, it's all up to you. Again, be cautious about it. Your heart is in the right place it sounds like, I don't want you to get your highest of high expectations up though. I've never done it, because it's hard to tell how 'real' someone is just by the internet. But, it wouldn't hurt to get to know her. Just make sure things are mutual between both parties and don't rush into anything. Talking to her about how she feels about it is your priority right now. Your intentions are well. Cheers, and good luck.
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I think thats super nice you need to talk to her about it
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Reckon you should and as others have said, be careful. Take care
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Long distance relationships usually don't work but if you really want to commit to that and you know that she will too then that's great and you should go for it. You sound like a really nice guy, and I'm glad that for someone like her you're actually there to help.
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Hope, we have sent each other videos and voice messages before. I care about her so much and im prepared for all the trouble this will bring, ive decided to dive in the deep end, she needs someone to love her when everyone else neglects her for something she cant control.
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OH MY GOD. Im so glad i made this account today to answer questions. This question caught my attention because it sounds like me 2 years ago BEFORE my whole life got fucked up. I met a guy online, he was also schizo and bipolar. but he seemed normal to me. long story short to not bring up old wounds, i lost 400$, lots of time, and almost died of depression. DONT DO IT, stay away, not for you.