Should I never talk to my “friend” again?

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My friend sent me a few paragraphs via text message about how I am spineless, a liar and an aweful friend because I’ve been “ignoring” her. I haven’t texted her in like five days and right now I’m on vacation. She’s been telling me about how she hates all of her friends, which are my friends too. Also that she plans on never talking to them again because they are so terrible. They are actually very fantastic friends. This has happened countless times and I’m sick and tired of it. I’m tired of the tears and the insults. Being friends with her has been like a chore. I have to text her or else she will throw a hissy fit. Also when ever I talk to her it’s always about her. She seems to never care about me and what’s going on with my life. It’s always her and her problems or how much she hates someone. Yes, she may be fun to be around sometimes. But, I just feel like ever since I’ve became friends with her I’ve been having anxiety and just different. I think just not talking to her ever again would fix it. But, I’m up for any suggestions or comment or any thoughts you have on this. Thanks!

Category: Tags: asked June 24, 2013

3 Answers

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Doesnt sound like a friend to me. If i were in you shoes id would ignore her or play some games. Make her go nuts. But i am cynical like that! Smile and wave ;) Make her realize that without her friends life is shitty. She wont have anywhere to turn. Again! I am a cynical asshole so take this how you wish! If your the modest type, ignore her. There are plenty of people who will be your friend and better. She will learn her error when everyone shuns her. Dont let her make you go nuts, it aint worth it.
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she sounds like too much "work" for sure!! You have the perfect "out" right now! Take it! Stop talking to her... and when she tries again, remind her that this is "her" decision not yours.... but don't feed into her guilt trips or manipulation when she changes her mind.... stick to this.
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thats not a friend...that's more of a drama queen, ...or an attention whore , .....or a spoon who likes to stir up trouble,...or an anchor weighing you down,....perhaps even a thoughtless indivdual,....but a friend?? nope, that is NO kind of friend.!