So recently I cheated on my boyfriend and had a one night stand with a guy. Anyway I’ve ended up pregnant and I know it’s definitely not my boyfriends baby. I’m looking for a male perspective here, should I get in touch with the one night stand and let him know (at least potentially give him a say) or just deal with the situation how I see fit and not bother him? Any input would be appreciated
If you choose to go through with the pregnancy, then contact the father to see if he wants to have anything to do with the child (also determine whether or not he is the kind of person you'd want to have that connection with; make sure he isn't controlling or abusive, etc)
If you choose to go through with the pregnancy, it is the responsible thing to do to confess to your boyfriend.
I definitely think you should let the guy know. Don't expect him to be understanding and for him to commit to you. It's not easy but he does have the right to know and make the decision for himself. Good luck ;)
If you do end up telling him, which I think you should, then just be careful and as considerate as possible of his feelings, this is a really tough spot to be in for both of you, but he will definitely get a lot more hurt.
Every party involved deserves to know it whether or not you pursue the pregnancy. Just think of it as one of the guys. if you'd be having a baby, or were cheated with, you'd like to know about it right?