Should I keep on waiting for a guy who says he’s not really looking for a relationship?


So I had the courage to tell the guy I like I like him. He responded so coldly to me and just said he’s not looking for a girlfriend. Should I wait for him?

Category: Tags: asked July 10, 2014

5 Answers

Now there are two ways to look at it.
It can be truth or just an excuse but either way, you should be done here and seriously consider moving on. That'll be in your best interest. Don't hang to something so inconsequential, okay? Okay.:)
Sorry, with these answers, it's more helpful to read them as "I don't want you to be my girlfriend". Most often it's not a matter of not being ready/not be looking for a relationship, it's just a polite way to reject you.
But congrats on having the courage to ask him! Having asked, even if it doesn't go well, has the huge benefit that now you know it isn't something that can happen and you are free to move on! So don't ruin the only benefit by tinkering his words with wishful thinking, take some rest and then be open to someone who will say to you "Hell yeah I want you as my girlfriend!".
No darling, i dont think so. if he answered coldly is not a good sign.
I don't think so. Don't let a guy control your time that way.
You are more courageous than a lot of people! Sometimes in life, you just have to let it go, y'know? As painful as it is. You'll find someone!