Should I go?

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My boyfriend of over a year wants me to come to stay with him and his parents at their cabin for Canada day weekend so.. 3 days. But I’m still not completely comfortable with his parents. And I’ve never really been comfortable showering other people’s houses. So that’ll be an obstacle if I go, also I’m only 17 and my parents have never met his parents so theyre kinda like the whole “I don’t think so, no way” because they think we’ll … You know. Plus they think it’ll create problems with my brother since they didn’t let him stay for his night with his girlfriend(no parents). The cabin has very thin walls and there’s nowhere you can go to do stuff like that. But i still dont know if i can convince them without getting into a fight with them. my moms very protective, worry prone and not a very good listener. But I just don’t know if I should go or not, he seems to really want me going and gets upset if I say other wise. Advice?

Category: asked June 23, 2013

1 Answer

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I think that if it will cause problems with your family you should talk it out with them first. If your boyfriend doesn't understand that your family is a major part in whether you go or not,, then he needs to get a serious reality check. Your mom has good reason to be worried if she hasn't met his parents,, I recommend inviting his family over for dinner so you can all get to know each other first.