Should I give my bf a second chance even though he cheated on me?

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Been together for a year. Recently cheated on me and told me a week later. We broke up but we are still seeing each other and still acting like a couple. How do I let him know about forgiving and wanting him back. Do I give him that 2 nod chance? We’ve never had trust issues before and it’s the first time. She kissed him. There was lots of flirting.

Category: Tags: asked September 20, 2013

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I'm just gonna be honest with you here. If he liked you enough, it wouldn't have happened. Yes, it's going to be hard to let go but if you stay then it will always play in the back of your mind.By letting him come back you will immediately send out an unconscious signal that you're willing to forgive him for doing something that is really not ok! He'll keep pushing those boundaries and will end up pretty messy for the both of you.I'm just offering my advice - you don't have to take it, but just bear it in mind. No one else can make the decision but you.
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Did he apologise for what happened? If you are willing to forgive him and give him a second chance then you might as well give it a go. Be firm with him though and tell him that it can't happen again or there will be consequences. If you let him get away with it time and time again, he'll just keep doing it and will stop caring about you.
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Cheating is wrong no matter what. It doesn't matter if you've been together for a day or a year, he was with another girl instead of you and thats wrong, but I've come to realise that men have different definitions of cheating than us.About giving him a second chance, that it totally up to you. If you think he deserves it then go for it. But make it clear to him that he has to earn your trust again.You could just tell him how you feel and admit to him that you're ready to give it another shot (but only if you're certain).
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I think it depends on your situation. If it was just a kiss and she kissed him then that is better than them having sex you know? I'm not saying it's right in any way though! It also depends on if he told you because he HAD to tell you or because he wanted to. Some times second chances are ok and you can over come cheating. Just be careful that it doesn't happen again and be aware that it could and you could be hurt/let down once again. But in the end it's really YOUR choice and what you want.
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It's a good sign that he told you, and you didn't hear it from someone else. everyone deserves second chances. but also make sure he knows that if it ever happens again then it's over and there's no going back. Goodluck! x