i was in a relationship with my friend for 3 years. Most of it was an on and off long distance. He would abruptly disappear and then reappear. he would say that he had some issues. Last december he said lets get back together and see how things go . He had some family issues and wanted to take his time. Because, he didn’t want to get into the relationship with me at the wrong time and then breakup again . i agreed and we decided to take it slow. Few days back when i asked him where he sees it going, he said we are good friends. and that he is still not in the right state of mind to think of commitments. i just couldn’t take it. I wrote him a mail. I expressed to him about how i feel for him and can;t be just friends with him cos i love him. He said he didn;t want to hurt me and that is why he wanted to be sure. we decided not to keep any contact. but now i regret doing it.. I think i did it in the spur of the moment. I was angry.. i want to know should i contact him? i mean is it the right thing to do?
