I had a really good online friend named Katie. We talked all day, and were really similar. I sometimes hold a tinychat and people who followed my blog could talk to me anonymously on there. I was talking to this dude on there who I really connected with, so we exchanged kik’s so we could talk in private. It didn’t have any sexual connotations, I just wanted to talk to him without any interruptions.
So he said his name was Jack, but that was it. I slowly got more information about him, and it turned out he was Katie’s boyfriend! I straight up asked him whether Katie would be okay with us talking and he assured us it was fine. I even asked her and she agreed so I thought, great! Another friend! Although he was 27 and I am 16, he was really funny and down to earth. I had never talked to a man online before, so I was really enjoying the attention. There was never any sexual conversations at first, I didn’t want that. I had seen a picture of him and I was not attracted to him, but slowly I noticed he would flirt with me. When I told him I was a shy girl, he told me “He liked girls who looked down at their feet.” He also complimented my appearance and personality. When he told me ‘Katie’ (Who lives in Canada) wanted to give me some Breaking Bad memorabilia I was really happy, but he would send it as he lives in the UK like me. So my parcel arrives from him, he had given me a new Breaking Bad set, a set of Cards Against Humanity and even written me a letter. After about 2 months of talking, he told me out of the blue that he would be deleting his kik because “Katie was getting anxious about us speaking.” And like that, he was gone.
As the days passed, I began to miss him more and more. Now I want nothing more than to speak with him again, but I shouldn’t. I don’t know what I expected to happen. I’m just wondering what you thought of the situation, do you think it was at all creepy how he talked to me? Was I in the wrong? I just want to hear your opinion, thank you.