Should I end things for good?

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I’m 19f and I have had a 22m fwb relationship since march. have feelings for my fwb and I believe he does too, but he’s scared I’ll reject him. I saw him last night with an intent on telling him I wanted to end things I’m moving away for college and he’s going into the navy. We tried to break it off many times before, but one of us will call the other back. Last night I really did want to say bye for good, I told him I wanted to end things so he said he’d shake on it and block my number.. Also he occasionally invites me out places, and sometimes when I’m out with friends he asks me why I don’t invite him out ..why would he need to block it if we just stopped seeing each other? I didn’t want him completely out of my life maybe that’s what he’s thinking? :/ I forgot to add in one thing, I was one the phone with him a couple days ago and he slipped the words “I love you” I didnt know what to say so I kept the convo we had going what should I think about it? its been 7 months.. :s

Category: Tags: asked October 3, 2014

2 Answers

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Hello! It sounds like you need to sit down and talk thing through with this guy. Explain that you still want him in your life, but you don't want it to be physical anymore. And tell him why! blocking each others number is like making each other forbidden fruit, you'll want to contact each other more. Try hanging out as friends, in a group, at a cafe. total honesty and communication is the key, to either ending it or making it more exclusive. Good luck!
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I totally agree with Taylor, couldn't say it any better myself