Should I come out to my best friend?

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Honestly I’m not even really sure about my own sexuality, because there’s a whole back story of uncomfortable-ness that I’d rather not get into. Basically I might and probably am Bisexual as well is my best friend. BUT a few years ago, maybe around the 7th grade she had told me she liked me and wanted me to kiss her- I had kissed her on the cheek and said that I loved her as a sister. These feelings are still the same for me, but lately she has been dropping hints of other things. Now, I’ve come to realize that I am Bisexual and I don’t know whether or not to tell her because I don’t want to spark any feelings of hope within her that I might see her as a lover. Purely platonic and I’m afraid of what will happen if I do tell her.

Category: Tags: asked July 24, 2014

2 Answers

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Do the right thing; confess your identity AND let her down easy. It isn't an either/or decision.
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of course! you should totally go for it & come out to her. i'm bisexual myself, & i think a similar situation but just i have already came out. She is like my sister to me, and i was so afraid i thought i would have lost her but she accepted me and the only price i had to pay was nothing, there were some awkwardness but that was only if we made it awkward, she treated me the same we still flirted friend wise and she understood i didn't like her, and she's bicurious but we set the bar, we won't be like that with each other. if anything it brought our friendship a bit closer. take a risk, it's worth it!