should i bring up marriage?

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Ok soooooo ive been dating my bf for almost 4 years….at the beginning. ( maybe 9 months into the relationship) he voiced his opinion about marriage basically he was not for it at allll and at first i was upset and we had a little semi angry conversation about it but i told him that i loved him more than i wanted to get married because i do…..it was just unexpected i guess later on he told me if anyone could change his mind about marriage it was me and we never spoke of it again……but now present day and all i wana know if he HAS changed his mind but im scared….i dont wana get married like tmrw but i DO wana marry him

asked April 30, 2015

2 Answers

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Well i say come right out and ask him. don't spend any more time wondering if he want's to marry you but just ask him. That is the fastest way you will get an answer!
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If straight up asking him doesn't work, drop hints. talk about how beautiful that wedding dress was as you look in a magazine, or comment at how happy people look in a wedding. Look for his reaction. If there is no reaction, it may be best to just ask.