Should I break up with him…?

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So I’ve been dating this guy for like 3 months, and at first I really liked him. We would walk eachother to classes, go on dates, and text 24/7. But now he just irritates me and i feel uncomfortable when Im around him. We’ve stopped walking eachother to classes, texting, and going on dates. But he texts my friends all the time saying how sad he is that im ignoring him and not talking to him. I feel bad that Im doing this to him, but i just need time and space to think. And then, to make matters more uncomfortable, I had to sit next to his mom at a play last night, and she kept asking me questions like “are you still dating my son?” and “You havent been over at all recently, is there something going on?” It was so awkward…
So should I break up with him? And if so, how? He’s really sensitive (Im his first girlfriend) and I dont want to make a scene or have him cry.
Please help! Thanks so much.

Category: Tags: asked January 19, 2014

5 Answers

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If you are even asking the question then yes, you should break up with him.
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well, if you don't want to be in a relationship and you feel uncomfortable then you should get out. Don't feel like you HAVE to continue pretending if its not what you want. otherwise you'll be committed to this person for a while and you could miss out on a lot of things. Think long and hard about what you want because in the end of the day you have to look out for yourself or else no one else will.
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Oh boy thats a toughie. Well it depends on how you feel. Are you breaking up with him for the right reasons? How is he going to react? How will you feel in the end? Here's what I say; go on another date with him to clear up your feelings for him. If you are sure you dont want to be with him in the end, tell him. And if he doesnt handle it well, stay and comfort him(for his sake) Good luck. Stay strong. c:
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well, if you don't want to be in a relationship and you feel uncomfortable then you should get out. Don't feel like you HAVE to continue pretending if its not what you want. otherwise you'll be committed to this person for a while and you could miss out on a lot of things. Think long and hard about what you want because in the end of the day you have to look out for yourself or else no one else will.
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If you guys are at that point, sit down with him, bring food, and have an honest conversation about where you both feel the relationship is headed