Four months ago, an online friend told me he’s really attracted to me. We’ve been friends for over 2years. He’s heard all my relationship and dating woes. He wanted a chance. I said ok. The problem is that there is about 1800 miles between us.
The first two months he texted be throughout the day and we talked 2-3 times a week, but then he got busier at week and had to travel more. He’s very stressed.
He was supposed to visit me in Oct, Nov and Dec. Now it doesn’t look like New Year’s eve is happening either.
The problem is that I’m in love with him and he’s in love with me. But I also believe actions speak louder than words.
He doesn’t communicate very well and the texts and phone calls are much less frequent. Although he says he is still looking at flights.
Today I left him a VM asking him to call me because we need to talk. I brain is telling me to let go, but my heart is saying otherwise. I’ve even offered to fly to him since my schedule is not as hectic as his, but he wants to come here.
Thoughts?