Should I be suspicious?

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I was recently nominated by the grade to speak as Valedictorian on behalf of the cohort for graduation, I can’t help but feel suspicious. While I’m well liked enough by my classmates, I’m not popular by any means, nor a perfect student. For my 3 years at this school, I’ve always perceived myself sitting at the bottom of the social ladder. I’ve never been invited to parties and rarely socialise with those outside of my small group of friends. I try to be friendly with those in my grade, but most people intimidate me and I have trouble holding a conversation with people I’m on good terms with. I’ve never been bullied here, and I’ve had no past experience to suggest that anything’s amiss, but it all seems unusual to me. Is there any method to my madness?

Category: Tags: asked October 18, 2013

3 Answers

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Not at all. Just because you might consider yourself 'at the bottom of the social ladder' doesn't mean that you are :) Your obviously more well liked than you think. It's ok to be a little shy and things, but people must think highly of you. I hope you enjoy it! :)Lots of love xx
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Maybe people just look up to you as someone who's more mature, and doesn't get all messed up in petty things, so they think that you can represent the cohort well.
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You're having trouble accepting evidence that goes against your beliefs.
In psychology, we call it "confirmation bias."

The answer to your question is "no."