Shall I be contented in a secret relationship with a married man?

Honestly even though you think you have a wonderful relationship it will bring nothing but trouble... Unless he ends his marriage and even then it will be rough for a while. Just think of what will happen when his wife finds out. Because she will in time you cant hide it forever. Not to mention what comes around goes around...

Don't let someone treat you like an option. He's married,don't be a home wrecker. Nomatter how we look at it, theres nothing good with being the other woman.

*sigh*
probably not. :( I think that when a married man cheats, he's looking to recapture his curteous, Don Juan-ish behavior. He will act gallant, and he will fulfill your wishes, all the while seeking conflict at home, to justify long absences. Every man who cheats speaks of a devilish wife, who doesn't understand him, but in truth, that connection was simply weakened by the fact that he no longer desires her exclusively, and by lies.
Now every situation is subtly different of course, but if he were to leave his wife, and marry you, how do you know that in time he would not come to lie to you too? If there are, or if there would be children involved, they will suffer, pointlessly, because of the conflict that surrounds them.

In your current position, you are enjoying only half-a-man, the charming side, and not his full personality. He's still trying to conquer you... Try to ask yourself if you really are content living half a life. You deserve a man who loves you completely, a man who'll be with you in his good times and his bad times, and not just as an escape from a situation that's become trite.

Good luck!

Young lady, you are with a cheater. Think forward; if he would cheat on his current woman to whom he has pledged his undying love, then realistically speaking, what makes you think the love he'd profess for you would be any more truthful?

That is the Wizard's Fifth Rule: "Mind what people do, not only what they say; for deeds will betray a lie." He says he loves you, but he also said he loved her, and look where he is and what he is doing.

Trust me, nothing good can come from this. There are many like you, and even though he might love you, he still goes back to his wife and keeps this from her ... That might mean that he loves her also. Might even love her more than he does you. I know that you have this fantasy in your head about being with him and everything working out once he tells his wife, and you two can live happily ever after, but I PROMISE YOU, that won't happen. It can't. There will be tears, mistakes, fights and maybe even regret. You will hate the fact that you are in this mess, when in reality, you could have stayed away from him and saved yourself all of that. It's not to late. Stay away from him, he is married and his wife shouldn't have to go through hell just because of him AND you. I hope my advice helped you a little.

In my experience, no. If he doesn't get a divorce, that sucks. And if he does, you'll probably realize you didn't even like him that much.

Well,just think where does the "secret relationship with a married man" place you in life?..Can you be guaranteed that he won't leave you totally one day for his family plus the justification is on his family's side and being a women you have to consider what his wife would go through if she comes to know of all this..

Think of it this way, he's cheating on his wife to be with you, who say's he won't to the same thing to you further down the line?

You should never, ever settle for anything less than you deserve. And you deserve to have a relationship that everyone will know about, not sneaking around in the background, idly waiting.

What it comes down to is, wether you can trust him. Cause without trust, a relationship wont last very long, especially not ones built on a lie.

If it works for you, and you manage to accept marriage won't be an option, sure. As far as we know his wife might be happy he's "venting" elsewhere and perfectly fine with it as long as the marriage stays.