Sexual fetishes and fantasies

everybody has secret fantasies and fetishes. Its COMPLETELY NORMAL!! your going through a stage where your mind is wanting to explore new things. I didnt get my fetishes until last year and my now boyfriend is not into those and will not do it. I however have learned to supress them. but its easier to learn to not care what people think about them, just do what you feel right. Its a lot harder to please everyone around you, than to please yourself. So just worry about you, and not them! ***Let YOUR FREAK FLAG FLY BABYYY!!****

Why would you need to tell them? You don't have to share everything with your spouse.

Everyone has their own interests. No judgement intended, unless you want to explore these things with your partner and you would like to the open with them go ahead. I cannot tell you how your girlfriend/wife will feel about it or react. Everyone is different. She may be open to some of the fetishes. Keep an open mind when or if you tell her and let her know that she may need to keep an open mind also. If she doesn't judge you upon anything than she will have an okay response as long as you don't act on these things without letting her know so no surprise is intended. Good luck!

Having a fetish is normal, I think everyone has some sort of fetish, I for example like having a tall curvy woman sit on my lap, my chest and ride me like a pony. My fetish was triggered when I lost my virginity really late at 18 to a woman who sat on top of me in various positions whilst I was inside of her back door. I love my fetish but I do think I can never ask my girlfriend to do all that to me..

Take it to the grave.. unless it's eating you up inside. Not everything needs to be shared.

It's 100% normal I'd suggest starting off small with dogs, cats, chinchillas then moving onto larger animals such as lions, chimpanzees etc. Dear lord please use protection you don't know what you can catch out there and as for incest urges I'd tell your mother/grandmother immediately. Regards, Dr Clementine /Renowned Author