Ok, so what I call myself pansexual, demi sexual, pan gender. I don’t know if what I’m going through already falls under one of those names. But, as for being sexually attracted to people, I have found that I am sexaully attracted to NO ONE at ANY level of even the slightest significance, EXCEPT for the person I am currently in a relationship with. Like, with my 2 previous boyfriends, I have no idea why I thought they were “cute” or whatever. And I have a girlfriend now, and she makes a game sometimes of pointing out all the cute people- but I never see it. I see potential for it, but there’s no, “oh, he’s cute…” There’s just her. And before we were together and we were just friends I thought she was beautiful but not in that way, you know what I mean?
Anyways, I was just hoping one of you guys might know of a name for this of be able to relate to just being attracted to a single person- your girlfriend/boyfriend- and no one else. Please, any advice, definitions, personal experiences, that’d be great.