sex question!may be to detailed for some

the question that lurks everywhere: why cant some girls orgasm. ive done alot of research on this and i CAN orgasm but its primarily from cliteris stimulation, but i also need to have something… in me t orgasm. so its not just one that i need. but my question part of this little tmi thing. is ive done the rsearch and you can train yourself to orgasm from something for me i want be able to orgasm from just having my bf in me, so just vaginal so how would i go about training myself to do that??

asked October 6, 2014

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rose

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As someone who is very experienced and currently has a very successful sex partner, I can tell you I have never achieved orgasm through solely vaginal stimulation. I've never heard of any training, but if you want your boyfriend to be more successful, do not be afraid to tell him exactly what to do. I'm sure he wants you to orgasm. Teaching him your anatomy and how you masturbate are common ways people help train their partners, for instance. Best of luck!

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Panpag

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You can't really train yourself to orgasm from certain things. Some people just need a specific type or combination of types of stimulation to get off. Nothing wrong with that, it isn't because there's anything lacking about either of you, that's just how it is.
Also, something that might be helpful to you... http://we-vibe.com/we-vibe-4 Those things are fucking awesome. I've got one, highly recommend it, esp for someone with your particular needs.

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Mechalith

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I have never heard a successful story of learning how to orgasm from a certain stimulation. You and your partner might try having sex in a different position to aid your stimulation. It can increase your stimulation on your clitoris and it may help you stimulate the ever evasive G-Spot.

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Swifting

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first off, communicate. tell your partner what you want. next is explore, there are a lots of erogenous zones on your body. ask your partner to help you explore them. google the common erogenous zones of women and tell your partner.

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